anonymous
2012-05-27 00:05:43 UTC
Since then, the restaurant has changed its hours, so now we play from 9-12. Over the past couple of years, it has become extremely hard to find a group, many times, it stresses me out beyond belief, calling in favors to fellow peers, and professionals in the area. The gig has become a second home to me, and I consider it to be more of a hang/ jam, than a "paid" gig. Whenever better paying gigs come along that conflict, I am able to sub out my recurring gig.
There are 3 owners of this restaurant. It is a fairly high priced restaurant and bar, in downtown Rochester, NY in the East End district. The clientele is high-class, and the restaurant (although it is only 4 years old) seems to be doing quite well at the moment. So well in fact, that when I asked 5 different employees for the power cord that we need for the bass amp, none had enough time to help me, and many snapped at me because they were so busy. When I finally found the owner, (outside socializing) he said he would do it, yet never did, so we played without it the entire night.
I have tried to negotiate for more money over the last couple of years, but nothing seems to work. Most of the time, the answer is that we should scale down the band. Many times I do bring a trio, but it is very difficult to find adequate pianists that are available to play on a Friday night for such little money, so I am forced to bring a drummer and bass player, which is hard work for all of us, but is better than anything else I can come up with. It is very difficult to hire pianists like I said, as well as guitarists for some reason. The drummer that I bring, is extremely tasteful, and is very sensitive to volume constraints in such a small boomy (tile room) area. He has been basically steady for 2 years, and has been extremely loyal to myself, as well as the restaurant. We have managed to fit either a trio or quartet in a very small space, and are always sure not to block walkways.
The other night, one of the owners pulled me aside and told me that it "wasn't working with the drummer". I asked him why, and he said that "it wasn't that he didn't like him, or that he was too loud, but just that he took up the most space, and that we didn't need him". The drummer is a great friend of mine, and I will be mortified if I have to tell him that he is done for good, but yet the band will stay.
Rather than argue with someone who clearly knows very little about music, I decided to try to make things work as always. The owners expect me to bring in a great entertaining high-class group week after week, with such little pay and benefits, and yet won't even allow me the courtesy to choose a configuration that I think will work. I have monitored our volume time and time again, and have actually fired drummers that insisted on playing at a dynamic that frankly did not work in the space.
Also, that very same night, I ordered a steak dish, which I have not done typically in the past. The owner mentioned that "once in awhile" I could get a dish like that ($18) but only ME, (not the rest of the band), and usually, we are only allowed burgers and sandwiches ($9-$12). This is the first I have heard of this. The band is also not allowed free alcohol, yet practically every employee drinks free beer/ liquor after there shifts are finished (in front of the band many times).
Clearly, we are being mistreated here.
I desperately want to keep this gig, for the experience, but also for the simple fact that I feel a great amount of pride that I have been able to keep a recurring gig so close to school for so long, with so many other talented musicians in this town.
Thoughts? Thanks, in advance for your help.